Dear Thelma: my better half is addicted to online internet dating sites

Dear Thelma: my better half is addicted to online internet dating sites

Dear Thelma

I’m 37 years old and possess been married for a decade. My better half is a long time older than me personally. We now have an eight-year-old child.

Once I came across my better half, we knew that he ended up being active on online dating services and ended up being communicating with many girls. But he promised he would stop as we got hitched. I happened to be okay with that.

But twelve months into our marriage, we realised he had been a lot more actively communicating with girls and sharing pictures. Once I found out and confronted him about this, he said he was simply chatting and not fulfilling these ladies myself, so just why ended up being we making a large hassle. He was told by me i would not tolerate that, and then he once again promised to end.

All was well until recently, whenever I discovered out he has got been at it again. Now, he could be telling these females he is separated from his wife that he has a baby girl whom he loves very much but. I also learned which he is visiting the thing I think are strange porn internet sites.

We have quit hope I can’t take it any longer that he will ever stop and. I’m sure for a lot of, it could appear to be a thing that is harmless. They may ask why i will be overreacting. Nevertheless the means he writes to the one woman online and exactly exactly how he could be often therefore cold with me is just for the sake of being married and for someone to take care of him and the house towards me at home makes me wonder if the only reason he is sticking.

We hardly talk any longer in which he states he could be constantly busy. I just don’t recognize who else to speak to about any of it.

Please Thelma, assist me. Have always been I Must Say I overreacting? Continue reading “Dear Thelma: my better half is addicted to online internet dating sites”